A good match

Elegance
Stand tall and upright

You don't have to stand like a Sargent Major but the correct posture in how we stand, sit and move makes a difference in how we feel, our attitude and speech. Slouching shows laziness and gives back problems, standing tall and upright shows a positive attitude, readiness and confident speech. You're back will also be thankful in your old age.

Etiquette

"As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, So is a lovely woman who lacks discretion." Proverbs 11:22

Make sure the inside of you matches the outside and vice versa. Imagine a beautiful woman with nice hair, immaculate make-up, and is well dressed but is loud in public, allows everyone to know her personal life, swears, gossips and bad mouths others...not a good match. Or a woman who is kind, helpful and giving but like to show her clevage, wears clothes too tight and shows her underwear....it spoils everything.

Discretion is respecting yourself and others around you. Look deep into you and make sure the outside and inside match.